Is your glass half empty or half full? So, the economy has hit a speed bump, the holidays are upon us, and there are lots of pessimists out there. These are the “glass is half-empty” people who are telling you what an awful season it’s going to be, it’s going to get worse before it gets better, the retailers are really going to suffer, etc., etc., etc. Oh, woe – what is wrong with this picture? We can all hang our heads and fall into their traps, or we can choose to enjoy this enchanting time of year.
If you aren’t going to shop as much, you will have a bit more time on your hands. I don’t know about you, but there have been years when the hustle and bustle of the season has left me feeling robbed of some of the most important things in life. At this delightful time of year, aren’t the best things in life really free? There’s time to spend with family and loved ones, go caroling, and be very particular about every light and ornament on the tree. There’s that trip to Longwood Gardens, or somewhere fun that we have been meaning to go for years. Have you yearned to go hiking through the woods to find the perfect tree, with all the kids in tow? Just do it. Stringing cranberries and popcorn might be fun too, and then hang your string on the bushes outside and be charmed by the birds that will come and get it. Choice is a wonderful thing.
Let’s replace our “woe is me” attitude with gratitude! In this economy, it’s easy to get lost in the blues. It helps to remember what is going right in your life. Try keeping a gratitude journal. Switch the focus from the negative to the positive, and make a list of all that is positive and good in your life. Be thankful, for every thing on that list. People who focus on the positive are just flat out happier people. They have more joy, and more energy. There is definitely something powerful in a regular gratitude check.
Each of us can make our own choice – half empty? or half full? Conjure up a smile, burst into laughter and make each day a day to remember and be thankful for.